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2. Do you share opinions, but not your inner self? When’s thelast time you were in the presence of a powerful speaker? Whatdo you remember about what the speaker said? Chances are,whoever was talking was sharing some personal story,illustrating a point with an anecdote. Listeners get enrolled ina conversation when the speaker actually shares somethingmeaningful about his or her life. Rich communication neveroccurs by accident. It takes intention and attention. Think ofthe most engaging conversationalist you know. Next time you hearthat person, listen for how much of themselves they reallyshare. Try sharing something personal next time you’re in aconversation with someone who’s important to your life. Trustthem enough to admit a fear of yours,Jordans 13XIII Sale, to tell a story from yourchildhood, or to share a vision you have for the future. We areall waiting to have these conversations, but no one wants to gofirst. Try going first.
I learned how to speak from a man who didn’t know how to listen.I once worked for a CEO who had no space or time for my emotionsor conversational process―so I wrote an article called “Who’sListening?” for a newsletter I created every month. Since I hadbeen so thrown off guard by his apparent disinterest in the“whole” me, I was led to question what it was about my owncommunication style that made it hard for us to talk.
4. Do you live up to your word? Did you ever know someone whowas always going to do this and always promising to do that andnever came through? Did you stop listening to that person afterawhile? The world is full of dreamers and planners, but it’speople’s actions, not their dreams, that inspire us. Open up andshare something you’ve accomplished that you’re proud of. If youhave something you want to accomplish, ask for support. Peoplewill not take us seriously if they see we do not take our ownwords and commitments seriously.
These are the questions I asked myself and ultimately includedin the article. I hope they help.
6. Do you speak as a victim of circumstances or as a creator ofpossibilities? People who speak as if the world were out to getthem have a difficult time finding listeners. No one wants toget pulled into the emotional quicksand that a “victim” seems tobe buried in. Consider how you respond as a listener to otherpeople’s tales of woe? Do you tire quickly in that context? Doyou get depressed and feel burdened? Energy is contag
3. Are you planning what you want to say while others speak,instead of listening? This one always backfires. It’s a deadgiveaway. People know when you’re doing it because yourresponses to their speaking are usually inappropriate, andcommunication breaks down rapidly. No one listens back tosomeone who hasn’t listened to them. Instead of spouting offyour opinions immediately after a person has spoken, ask themsomething about what they just said. Pay attention to theirspeaking and they will pay more attention to yours.
5. Have you created an environment for listening? It is noteasy to listen to someone in a room where TV’s and radios are incompetition with humans. If real communication is important toyou, try turning off the tube and finding a commercial-free FMstation that plays music conducive to conversation. Classicalmusic stimulates the alpha waves in our brains,Jordan 13s, and keep ourcreative juices flowing.
Part of our evolutionary process is learning how to communicatemore effectively and efficiently. Few of us have had muchtraining in the matter, and most of us have experienced theconsequences of communication breakdowns. We all know whatdoesn’t work,Cheap Air Jordan Shoes, and how badly it feels to be unheard andmisunderstood.
1. Are you being negative? Nobody enjoys being in the presenceof negative energy. Try listening to yourself as you speak. Payattention to your tone of voice. If you are whining, stop it. Ifyou are being cynical or complaining, stop it. For one week, tryturning your complaints into requests and see if you notice adifference in how your ideas are received.


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